花开花谢 =)

hilllllooooo readers! <3 xixixi...

im back here!!!! after a long long long long time of MIA due to my final ^^

blogger yg tired ni~ =0

*to update u guys how i look alike reccently* xixixixi

okie okie....actually this post i plan to blog in mandarin lo cause im bad in making eng poet...haha! =P so~
*sorry for those who doesn't know how to read mandarin yea* ^^

flowers!

f-l-o-w-e-r-s!

bunga

花 (hua)

=D

花的生命其实很简单，花开是为了繁殖，盛开后就花谢。这好比一段感情。当花苞要开时，一种既兴奋即担心的感觉让人捉摸不定。那是一种快乐的过程，想要多了解那花的本质，想要好好珍惜每一寸美妙时刻。

当花盛开时，人将会感到与比的快乐,想尽办法去保存花的邝辉时刻，用无限量的爱灌溉它，滋润它。这是好让那花儿永永远远可停留在那时刻。然而花谢的一天总会来临，这是在于人怎样去保存它。花不须24小时去灌水施肥，它也需要呼吸的空间，施展那美丽的身躯。过多的束约只会让花儿透不过气。=)

花盛开时的美丽时刻，扑鼻的花香真让人难以抗拒

然而

花谢了也有另一番的感慨

花谢总让人伤心流泪难过，但如果从另一角度来开，其实花谢后它可成为干花。干花其实是在保存花美丽的一面，好让那时刻成为美好的回忆。花总不会白白的盛开，它将最好的一面呈现在人的眼里，默默地付出不求回报。目的？它只想让人开心，让人去呵护它。

花谢后人没必要再去将它毁坏。就让花美丽的一面永远留在心中不好吗？花谢后再狠很地去责怪花无情，真的值得吗？不适当的保养方式会让花儿凋谢得更快。难道这也全是花儿的错？！虽然感情不能与花作比较，但其实道理还蛮相似。当一段感情结束了，珍惜所拥有过的往往比执著在一个盲点上来得值得。反省以往的错误，好好对待下一段待遇才是爱情道路的哲理。^^

*above article is just the point of dis lame blogger opinion yea =)  u may agree or disagree...xixixi...*
oh yea btw....im happy to find a man who understand and love me =) i neo is fast...but~ who cares...i know what im doing right now....i will be brave to go through all those shit that happen to me...those 流言蜚语i will handle it smartly =) what ppl gossiping bout me is hurtful and suffering but i will stand strong because~
this is MY life...i rule my own life...=) 
*that phone call seriously make my self esteem drop to the bottom of mountain =) 
neeway i appreciate the time we had together and thanks for appearing in my life =) *
thanks for reading yea hohoho! 
have a nice day ^^
xoxo

ways to release S.T.R.E.S.S

yelllu readers! ^^
how's life? xixixi finally i can RELAX bit dy....hehe....cause had my last presentation dy...wohoooo! =D
stilll~~~~ i feel stress....=.=lll y?! because after presentation then FINAL is coming *fuihhhhh*
human very weird huh....when we're too busy then we stress...when we're too free, yet we're stress too! LOL
in psychology, job requires excessive speed, output or concentration is work overload, then, feeling of workers that their knowledge, skills or energy are not being fully used will cause stress too and this is underutilization ^^
xixixxixi...
*plz excuse me of applying psychology knowledge here =P *
then how u guys cope v stress?!
share some of my tips v u =P
1. MAKAN aka EAT aka JIAK...xixixixixi ^^
have ur fav food! hehe...

ice cream!!!!! my fav! *slurp*

haagen daez fondue! <3 *awwwww miss it* who wana acc me go eat?! =(

sushi!!! yum yum yum

chocolates!!!  gurls best fren when they are sad, down or stress =D 

actually i have lotssssss of fav foods geh...LOL so when im not happy, stress, i tend to eat alotssssss =P

food is the basic needs for every human so when u're stress, according to Maslow's hierarchy of needs, by fufilling ur stomach then u will feel satisfied,thus, it reduces ur stress (tutu,2010) XD

*neeway dis is according me dis blogger yea...haha! i din go search for any journals to support my point =P *

2. EXERCISE! 

exercise seriously can make u release ur stress punya...=D somehow i neo BUSY ppl like me and u dont have the time to exercise...so! alternative ways! 

jeng jeng jeng!

we go boom boom shake shake la!!!!! LOL XD

*haha! i neo is a very bad example but~ hmmm...no choice =P*

shake shake also will sweat ma...just the environment...haha! not healthy *wink wink*

neeway when we have time...exercise in the proper way seriously can reduce stress and keep u healthy ^^

awwww~ i miss my ballet time...maybe i should continue back in may?! =) hmmm

3. SING OUT LOUD 

sing out ur frustration! woot woot....

u can sing out when u're in the car, bathroom, or even go for sing-k session in redbox! =D

this is a nice way to release! xixixi

OR 

imitate how an animal sing! =P

*i neo dis is a very weird way...but is fun wat* XD

4. SLEEP

sleeping is not a bad thing thou....^^

take a nap will make ur mind clear and fresh... 

some ppl might think dat this is ridiculous but refresh ur mind by let it rest for few minutes is a good things! better believe me xixi...when im stress v assg...i tend to take short nap...haha!

5. READ MUA BLOG XD

yesh la...u din see/read wrongly...is read MUA blog ^^ xixi...reading also can peace ur mind ma...hohoho! sumore my farny language =P it does make u laugh sometimes rite? rite? hehe.....seriously do hope by reading my blog will cheer u guys up yea <3 

LOL! sorry for scaring u...XD

neeway actually there are still various ways to cope with stress...above are few steps i usually will take ler...^^

sometimes i will scream, bath,  cry *=.=* and etc...haha! hope u guys enjoy reading and of course, cope well v stress then u will be happy ^^

SMILE ALWAYS =D

jiayou everyone! ^^ 

笑笑就可找到快乐

cheers! 

xoxo 

talang!

finally blogger yg lazy ni update again =P
solly *sorry* la...although done with assignments but still have presentation ma
*it's true kay....not alasan yea~~~ * xixi....
actually still have 1 more presentation on cuming monday geh~ but i rest rest awhile sin =D lazy to do anything now....xixi....
interested to c mine presentation photos?
*u're not interested also need to see because u're reading this...LOL!!!!*

the class setting ^^

table v flowers and candle =D *romantic le~~~* 

blogger v her formal wear LOL *blurry*

a very 'hardworking classmate that draw on the pinata...and small tutor enjoying behind LOL

ah gan v the new fashion style...hanging pinata on herself LOL

sexay participants going downstairs for~~~~??? woot woot

talang!

hitting pinata session =D

=D 

spot the radio....thought of putting music...tapi my chan radio tak ala batt geh...=.=lll now i only realize

*swt*

xixi....see until big head dy rite?! must be thinking 'what the hell is pinata la?! and why ur presentation gt indoor outdoor geh?!'

c.o.m.e~ let this blogger explain to u...=P

1. pinata 

piñata is a figure, usually made from a clay pot covered with paper mache and decorated in bright colors, with candy and fruit inside. At parties piñatas are suspended from a rope and children, usually blind-folded, take turns hitting it with a stick until it breaks and the candy falls out onto the ground and the children rush to collect it. Breaking the piñata is a fun activity at Mexican parties.
(http://gomexico.about.com/od/glossary/p/pinata.htm, 2010) ^^
our topic is about stress geh...so when our participants hit the pinata that had their frustration written on top, this symbols they hit away their anger and stress ma ^^ then at the end they will get sweet...this symbolize the revive or there will alwaz be good things after facing those challenges =D
*fuihhhh~ i sounds so pro! LOL*

nahhhhh~ dis is pinata la ^^ *sorry yea blogger ni dunno how to put the '~' on top of A* LOL

pinata could be in any shapes and color...due to shortage of time and limited cash...so my gp geh pinata oni in white round shape la~ LOL *save time and cost*

2.this sem geh presentation all become more active (i mean not ordinary)...normal presentation is ppl talk talk talk infront rite?! dis sem al tukar become menjalani those activities that we written in our report inside the class =.=lll sumore got video shotting tim....*fuih* sometimes i thought im in drama course more than psychology course =P HOWEVER dis is fun la~ haha! although very tiring but IT IS SUPERB FUN! <3 it xixi

<3 latest photo after presentation LOL...

*plz ignore my bajusssss* XD

lastly thanks for reading yea ^^ huggs

blogger yg sick till face green green ni need to take some rest dy...

xoxo

miss me yea <3

10 hours more

yelllluuuuuu everyone....! sorry for MIA for such a long periods...=) 

a photo of this blogger in case u guys forgot how i look alike dy XD

well well....finally finished up the 2nd last assignment! 
WOHOOOOOOOOO~~~~~!!!!!
dis means that i CAN back to my lovely peniang liao!!!! woooot woooot.... 
*im superb excited but im just too tired =.=lll* very contradicting rite?! 
kerana~~~~~blogger ni slept everyday at 6am for the one whole mth continuously....T.T
mamamiaaaaaa~ aku now chan like an 80years old granny...T.T
hence..this sat! i fly back to pg for facial dy! =P *u can say me ai sui (jaga image) but i am gurl kay* xixixi
neeway this week had happen shoooo many things that drive me crazy....haiz~
im not in the relationship anymore =)
*no worry peeps...im fine*
currently i am happy v my freedom life <3
a relationship without trust and love will be just suffering...breakup mostly is hurt but hurt is better than suffering for the rest of your life =) hmmmmm...maybe u guys might think im cruel, but the fact is..my heart is being hurt until no feeling dy....so just store the sweet memory rather than those sad things...canot become a couple doesnt mean we cannot become friend...=) xixi
oh gosh....now almost 1am and i'm still awake for tml presentation preparation...T.T 
sumore tml still have to drive back to my peniang-o-peniang....~.~
HAIZ~~~~
i better get back to my stuff 1st yea...=)
c my friends in penang! we partay together again kay *wink wink* 
*oh yea...i can partay doesn't mean that i am not emo at all...just i have my own freedom to mix around with my close friends to release my emoness* hope he can understand me~ =)
i continue for my preparation of tml presentation 1st yea~ ^^
stay tune <3

missing someone?! LOL 

xoxo ^^

soooooorrryyy =)

sorry yea my dearest readers...currently this blogger is farking busy with her 7 assignments and presentations @.@ 
i slept at 5am everyday =.=lll 
hmmm....now i seriously look like 6o years old granny dy....*haiz*
now 3am blogger ni actually is doing assignment but since need to write bout own self- reflection...so let me think of my lovely blog =P
xixi so i just decided come here and crap for awhile...and practice practice for my grammar ma...xixi
*actually im quite emo rite now cuz gona write something that happen in the past and i dont really like to mention about it and also the stresssss!* =(

latest chan me! @.@

my eyes bag! fuiiiihhhhyo~ i gona stay in this condition for another 2 weeksssss =.=

assignmenttttssss! u're suck! ~.~

k ler...i need to get back on my work dy ler....if not i dunno i gona stay up until wat time dy *sigh*

byebye...

wish me luck! 

nitez to u guys

xoxo

new year new year *roar~!*

hie peeps....blogger yang busy ni back! =)
today is the last day of cny dy...
HAPPY CHAP GOH night!!!!  
wish all the couples have a happy Chinese valentine's day ^^
those who are single also no need to be sad geh....u can go to the river there and pick 1 mandarin orange up and call the number written there! =D
so...how's cny weekend? fun? xixi
for me...it is fun for sure...but this year some issues do keep occurs during the whole cny weeks =) hmmm....so if u ask me izzit the most fun year....i would say NO...
*no worry la peeps...im alrite...=) *
well well....as usual told u guys i will go to the annual place during cny eve every year d rite? xixi somehow...dis year without the hiaoness jie along! *she went to movie v her mama ish ish ish!* and the time i stay there superb s.h.o.r.t! *haiz* becuz of someone...hmm hmmm...

show u how nice is the nite there....
awwww...photo make me miss pg more! hmmm =(

 dis year slight diff cuz the new buddha statue already done! woot woot....shooo nice...<3

nice rite? ^^

my chor yat outfit =D

spot my hair become darker dy?! xixi... i dye my hair into dark brown sudah <3

as usual....after doll up myself...will go to my uncle's house to take ANG PAO! woot woot...

but this year will be different...cause y?

because someone we love and care fly to the heaven last year =)

we will alwaz miss u my dear granma...wish u have a happy chinese new year in heaven together v granpa

^^

love yea 

photo taken by mr indian saw after having dinner in his house =)

the guys busy playing dota and i gt nth to do...so....i just drink POP =P while waiting mr kaiho to arrive!

nice view rite? xixi

went to my granma's sisssssss house so called 'yi por'ssss in kedah...=D

im driving there le...woot woot...1st time...

cousins + me *sorry mine morning face is stim and fugly*

having lunch under those passion fruits had cheer my mood up =D

had a photo at my uncle's own dusun! woot woot

had a great morning meeting up v those primary friensssss LOL
and also our std 6 class teacher...haha!
on chor 4 if im not mistaken xixi

having primary class dinner at egate ^^

1B classmates LOL

went to mois again at nite time after egate dinner and also family gathering dinner
*yea i run for 3 occasion in a nite o.0*
v pretty ivy <3

then went over to zenzi bar for these frenssss ^^
sabby! <3

tps+sabby+tutu

xuanyi+tutu

guys of the nite LOL
then went back to mois again!
*i sound so damm busy la wey....=P*

ok...met u-jen there <3
*sorry yea...i drink kinda lots dat nite too*

v ester =D

a kiss from linghui LOL

well well....i wrote until chor sei sin kay? =P

too many things happen during cny d lar....xixi...actually i went to club for quite a number of times...just i dint took much photos =P

neeway tml will be my midterm exam...and neo wat?! i din study at all!!!!! shit...@.@

i chaoz pi study sin d yea...wish me luck! <3

nitez~

xoxo